All thanks to you.I hate you, I really do. Do me a favour and get out of my life
Yesterday was the biggest mistake I ever made. I wish we never met.
10 Things Only Guys Can Do
By Nur Farhani · February 4, 2010 · 2 Comments · 17 Views
No.10 - Go topless
Sure, women can go topless on the beach, but guys can do it whenever and wherever we please. Walking down the street? Off. Mowing the lawn? Off. Street ball? Skins. Rollerblading -- women can try it, but it might be painful. Still in doubt? What gender do you think is responsible for “No Shirts. No Shoes. No Service.”? Useless nipples and the lack of oversized sweat glands are the reasons for this entry on the list of things only guys can do.
No.9 - Hold our liquor
Sorry ladies, but guys are genetically wired to pack it away a lot better than us. Guys produce more of the protective enzyme alcohol dehydrogenase, which breaks down alcohol. This ultimately means that while we’re buzzing off one Cosmo and saying “I love this song” for five songs straight, they can enjoy another two whisky sours and continue to debate whether or not the world can be saved from global warming.
No.8 - Manscape
The playoff beard and the goatee are strictly male innovations, and growing them are things only guys can do. Plus they can wear chest, underarm, leg, ear, and nose hair as proudly and loudly as they like. But girls? People might think that you're "two in one" !
No.7 - Navigate spatially
Guys are much better at seeing things as they really are -in 3-D. True, the fact that they can see Spy Kids 3-D in focus is no reward, but their superior ability to see shapes also improves their abilities in geometry and math. This explains why more guys are math geniuses than us. And this also explains why we are better in subjects like English and Literature! (:
No.6 - Shave the whole hair
Sure, Natalie Portman and Demi Moore all sheared their locks for Hollywood, but as a true lifestyle choice in everyday society, guys have mastered the bald top. From Michael Jordan to David Beckham to Samuel L. Jackson guys wear bald better. Still need more proof? Just look at bald Britney. Result: Shaving our heads is something only guys can do. And I have to agree with this!
No.5 - Play real sports
Be honest; which of these would you prefer to watch: WNBA or NBA? NHL or women’s hockey? NFL or women’s rugby? MLB or softball? We understand that women play plenty of sports and, yes, they are good athletes, but their sports are a snoozefest to watch. An example, in the WNBA a slam dunk stops the presses, while in the NBA, unless it’s a back reverse through three defenders, it’s just another two points.
No.4 - Fertilize eggs
Omg! I just learned this in school!Haha! Call it mankind, humankind or peoplekind, guys have fertilized history. Their swimmers are active all the time and is always ever ready. And one thing for sure, their tadpoles will always continue to hit the target.
No.3 - Pee standing up
Full bladder, but there’s a line for the urinal? Just step outside and pee behind a dumpster. On a camping trip? Pee and lean against a tree to steady the flow. While we, girls have to unzip, pull down and crouch before we can go, their process is pretty simple: Find some cover, unzip and go. And I guess its pretty simple if they want to write their name in the snow, because they can see exactly what they’re doing.Opps!
No.2 - ??
You might be wondering why there's a question mark there.Well, its simply because I think I should let the picture do the talking this time round.
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No.1 - Age well
Their male hormones give them thicker skin, which means they get fewer wrinkles and their skin stays younger longer. (REALLY?!!?!OMG!THAT'S NOT FAIR!)
Learning to trust again..
By Nur Farhani · January 31, 2010 · 0 Comments · 15 Views
You thought this relationship was going somewhere. You thought this was the real deal. Perhaps, you were even falling in love.And then it fell apart. You parted ways. Now you are left picking up the pieces. Sound familiar? We've all been there. When our hearts have been broken, it can seem unfathomable that we'll ever reach out again. We don't want to risk our hearts again. We are reluctant to take that leap of faith again with someone new.
But that's exactly what happens. Taking that leap of faith is what we have to do if we want to keep our hearts open and our spirits alive. Read on for some vital perspective on moving forward and practical tips for loving again.
Consider the Alternative
Stop right now and think for a moment about what it would be like to live a life without love and companionship. This isn't what you want, is it? Perhaps the best reason to be willing to love again is because doing so is obviously better than not.
Think about people you know (or even fictional characters) who have made the choice to live like a self-protected island, giving up love because of their fear. Fear of making themselves vulnerable. Fear of being hurt. Would a life like that be truly satisfying to you? Even if you could remain relatively content, would it be the most fulfilling, meaningful life you could lead? Most likely, it would be, at best, a muted existence.
The point is that you could protect yourself from future heartbreak-but at what cost? By choosing not to love again, you can avoid the acute pain you're feeling right now; but you'll be left with the ongoing pain of disconnection and isolation.
Consider the Possibilities
You may have thought that the last person was your destiny, but clearly destiny has different and better plans for you. It may be hard to imagine right now but there's someone out there who's even better for you.
Focus on the fact that perhaps this relationship ended so that another one can begin. One that will lead you to an exciting and fulfilling future you couldn't have had without experiencing this end. And if you close yourself off and refuse to risk again, you may end up missing out on someone great. As with so much in life, you will likely look back some day and feel that there was a reason this happened.
Consider your Growth
Don't discount how much you've learned and grown as a result of the painful moments you've been through in your life. You're now a wiser and ultimately stronger person than you were before you experienced this difficult time. And that means that you now have more to contribute to a new relationship, and that you can be an even better partner to the right person.
How to Trust Again
So clearly, there are plenty of good reasons to be willing to love and trust again. But that doesn't mean that it's easy to do. For many people who have been hurt in a past relationship, the question is not why it's good to be open to love again, but how to get themselves to do so.
If this is where you are, then here are some suggestions that might make it less scary as you think about putting yourself back out there.
1. Give yourself time to Heal.
Before immediately jumping back into another serious relationship, give yourself time to deal with what you've been through. It takes hard work to come through a painful breakup in an honest and authentic way, and the last thing you want to do is to short-circuit that growth process by instantly entering another serious romance. Instead, give yourself permission to date casually, enjoying your time with new and different people and learning to just have fun with people you find interesting.
2. Let your trust be Earned.
Then, once you do find someone you might be interested in going deeper with, be patient with yourself in terms of how quickly you open up to this new person in your life. There's no reason you have to go from zero to sixty in a new relationship.
Take your time and offer yourself slowly, watching for how the person responds. Show a few smaller parts of yourself in the beginning; then, if this new person responds in a way that makes you feel safe, try offering a bit more. Over time, then, if you continue to feel that you're being honored and respected as you make yourself increasingly vulnerable, you can begin to open up more and more, showing the larger and deeper parts of who you are.
3. Tell your Story.
Once you've found someone you're interested in opening yourself up to, then make sure you two communicate about your fears and concerns. It can be very healthy to openly discuss your reluctance to make yourself vulnerable again. It can also create a sense of connectedness between two people, which can of course lead to more trust and caring. You might even find that the person you are sharing your experiences with has a similar story.
In addition, keep in mind that it's not fair to the new person to bring the baggage from your earlier relationship into the new one. Perhaps we can't avoid doing this to at least some extent, but as much as possible, keep reminding yourself that this is a completely different person. Do your best to see with "now" eyes, rather than viewing everything through lenses colored by your past experiences.
Remember, we're not saying that any of this is easy. Love can lead to some of the most intense pain that any of us ever experience. But as you know, it can also be the greatest thing in the world. We are resilient and adaptable and hopeful. We know that with dating as with life there are going to be endings that bring new beginnings.
by eHarmony Staff
-So what do you guys think? Is it really that simple to open up your heart to thers after such a painful break up?Should we take that leap of faith and believe that there's still someone out there whose made for us? They said that there's always a reason why someone from your past didnt make it to your future.And should we go on by believing that the future has something better in store for us? Or should we just be single and hold on tight to our heart and never trust them to someone else ever again?
Richness,vanity,sadness,happiness,knowledge,time and love..
By Nur Farhani · January 31, 2010 · 0 Comments · 6 Views
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others including Love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.
Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you." Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now." Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, "Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry.
Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.
Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
One flaw in women..
By Nur Farhani · January 29, 2010 · 2 Comments · 15 Views
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.
Women have vital things to say
and everything to give.
However, if there is one flaw in women,
it is that they forget their worth..
- Unknown
